Application Tutorial
A comprehensive guide to completing your matchmaking application and presenting your authentic self.
Why This Application Matters
Your application is the foundation of our matching process. The more thoughtfully and honestly you complete each section, the better we can understand who you are and find truly compatible partners for you. Take your time. There are no wrong answers, only honest ones.
This tutorial will guide you through each section of our comprehensive application form. We recommend setting aside 45-60 minutes to complete it thoughtfully. You can save your progress and return at any time.
What We'll Cover
1. Basic Information
Essential contact and personal details
2. Demographics & Background
Education, career, and cultural context
3. Physical Attributes
Your physical characteristics
4. Personality Assessment
Understanding your personality traits
5. Core Values & Life Goals
What matters most to you
6. Communication Styles
How you interact and resolve conflicts
7. Deal-breakers & Must-haves
Your non-negotiables
8. Deep Relationship Insights
Your relationship philosophy
9. About & Interests
Your story and passions
10. Match Preferences
What you seek in a partner
11. Photos
Presenting yourself visually
12. Terms & Agreement
Finalizing your application
1. Basic Information
Essential contact and personal details
Fields to Complete
- First Name & Last Name *
Your legal name as you'd like to be addressed.
- Email *
Your primary email for all communications. This will be your login credential.
- Phone Number
Your preferred contact number for consultations.
- Date of Birth *
Used to calculate your age for matching purposes.
- Gender *
Select Male, Female, Non-Binary, or Other.
- Marital Status
Single, Divorced, Widowed, Separated, Annulled, or Prefer not to say.
- Number of Children
If applicable, how many children you have.
- Location *
Your city, state, and country. Format example: "Naples, FL" or "London, UK"
Pro Tips
- • Use an email you check regularly. This is how we'll communicate important match information.
- • Be honest about your current marital status; our verification process will confirm this.
- • Your location helps us identify geographically compatible matches.
2. Demographics & Background
Education, career, and cultural context
Fields to Complete
- Education
Your highest level of education (e.g., Bachelor's Degree, MBA, PhD).
- University/College
Where you received your education.
- Occupation
Your current job title or professional role.
- Company
Where you currently work (optional if self-employed).
- Field of Expertise
This can extend beyond your occupation. Are you an expert in gardening, wine, cryptocurrency, or gourmet cooking? Your passions matter. A partner should respect and support them.
- Income Range
Select from predefined ranges. This helps with lifestyle compatibility matching.
- Religion & Ethnicity
Cultural background that may be relevant to matching.
Sensitive Screening Questions
We ask about mental health facility history and felony convictions for screening purposes only. This information:
- • Is kept strictly confidential
- • Is never disclosed to potential matches
- • Helps us ensure safety and appropriate matching
- • Can be answered with "Prefer not to say" if you're uncomfortable
3. Physical Attributes
Your physical characteristics
Fields to Complete
- Height
Enter your height in centimeters (e.g., 175 cm = approximately 5'9").
- Body Type
Select from: Slim, Athletic, Average, Curvy, Plus Size, or Muscular.
- Hair Color & Eye Color
Your natural or current hair and eye color.
- Medical Conditions
List any serious medical conditions. This helps us avoid matching you with someone who has specified different preferences. Your conditions are never disclosed. We simply use this for appropriate matching.
Why Physical Information Matters
Physical attraction is part of a successful match. Being honest about your physical attributes helps us introduce you to people who will genuinely appreciate you. We find that authentic representation leads to much better first meetings.
4. Personality Assessment
Understanding your core personality traits
The Big Five Personality Traits
Rate yourself from 1 (Low) to 5 (High) on each trait. There are no "right" answers. We're looking for compatibility, not perfection.
Openness to Experience
Curiosity, creativity, and willingness to try new things. High scorers love novelty; low scorers prefer routine and tradition.
Conscientiousness
Organization, dependability, and self-discipline. High scorers are methodical and reliable; low scorers are more spontaneous.
Extraversion
Sociability and energy drawn from social interaction. High scorers are outgoing; low scorers (introverts) prefer quieter settings.
Agreeableness
Compassion, cooperation, and trust in others. High scorers are warm and accommodating; low scorers are more competitive.
Emotional Sensitivity (Neuroticism)
Tendency to experience negative emotions. Low scorers are emotionally stable; high scorers may be more prone to stress and anxiety.
Additional Personality Questions
- Attachment Style
How you relate to intimacy and independence: Secure, Anxious, Avoidant, or Fearful-Avoidant.
- Emotional Expression Style
How openly you share your feelings: Very Expressive, Moderately Expressive, Reserved, or Balanced.
The Science Behind It
Research shows that personality compatibility is one of the strongest predictors of relationship success. We don't necessarily match identical personalities. Sometimes complementary traits work better. Answer honestly, and let our matching engine do the rest.
5. Core Values & Life Goals
What matters most in your life
Rate These Values (1-5)
1 = Not Important, 5 = Extremely Important. Be honest. Shared values form the foundation of lasting relationships.
Family & Starting a Family
Importance of family life and children
Professional Success & Ambition
Career achievement and advancement
Religious/Spiritual Beliefs
Faith and spiritual practice
Travel, Excitement & Adventure
New experiences and exploration
Security & Stability
Predictability and routine
Artistic Expression & Creativity
Creative pursuits and arts
Making a Difference
Social impact and helping others
Financial Success
Material comfort and wealth
Fitness & Healthy Living
Physical health and wellness
Intellectual Stimulation
Learning and mental growth
Value Alignment
Partners don't need identical values, but significant misalignment on core values (like wanting children or religious practice) can create friction. Being clear about your priorities helps us find harmonious matches.
6. Communication & Conflict Styles
How you interact and handle disagreements
Communication Style Options
Direct
Straightforward, clear, to the point. You say what you mean.
Diplomatic
Tactful, considerate, nuanced. You consider how your words land.
Expressive
Emotional, animated, open. You share feelings readily.
Reserved
Thoughtful, measured, private. You process before speaking.
Analytical
Logical, detailed, factual. You focus on data and reasoning.
Conflict Resolution Approaches
Collaborating
Seek win-win solutions that address both parties' concerns fully.
Compromising
Find middle ground with partial satisfaction for both sides.
Avoiding
Withdraw, postpone, or sidestep conflict when possible.
Accommodating
Yield to others' wishes to maintain harmony.
Competing
Stand firm, assert your needs, aim to win disagreements.
7. Deal-breakers & Must-haves
Your absolute non-negotiables
Be Honest and Specific
This is one of the most important sections. Being clear about deal-breakers saves everyone time and ensures we never introduce you to someone fundamentally incompatible.
Deal-breakers
List characteristics or behaviors that would make someone completely unsuitable. Examples:
- • Smoking or tobacco use
- • No desire for children (or already having children)
- • Active substance abuse issues
- • Extreme political views opposite to yours
- • Dishonesty or infidelity history
- • Unwillingness to relocate
- • Specific religious requirements
Must-haves
Essential qualities your partner must possess. Examples:
- • Sense of humor and playfulness
- • Emotional intelligence and self-awareness
- • Financial stability and responsibility
- • Shared religious faith or openness to it
- • Desire for children
- • Active, healthy lifestyle
- • Intellectual curiosity
- • Close family relationships
8. Deep Relationship Insights
Your relationship philosophy and experiences
Enhanced Analysis
Our system analyzes your written responses to understand your relationship style at a deeper level. Take your time with these questions. Thoughtful answers lead to better matches.
Narrative Questions
What are you hoping to achieve in your next relationship?
Share your hopes, dreams, and what success looks like for you.
What have you learned from past relationships?
Reflect on key insights, patterns, and personal growth.
Describe your ideal weekend with a partner
Paint a picture of quality time together.
How do you typically handle disagreements?
Your approach to conflict and what you're working on improving.
How do you prefer to give and receive love?
Words of affirmation, quality time, physical touch, acts of service, or gifts?
What areas of personal growth are you working on?
Self-improvement journey and personal development goals.
What does a flourishing partnership look like to you?
Your vision of an ideal long-term relationship.
Writing Tips
- • Write naturally, as if speaking to a trusted friend
- • Be specific with examples when possible
- • It's okay to be vulnerable. This information is confidential
- • Focus on what you want, not just what you don't want
9. About & Interests
Your story, passions, and hobbies
The "About Me" Section
This is your opportunity to describe yourself in the third person, as if a trusted friend were introducing you. This text may be shared with potential matches.
Example Format:
"Our client is 57, Jewish (not religious), witty, highly educated (PhD in Psychology), widower, with 4 grown children. He runs a family business full-time, but has enough flexibility in his schedule to have a significant relationship. He loves photography, drawing, scuba diving, and travel. He has homes in Costa Rica, Israel, and comes to Miami Beach often. He is looking for a worldly, dignified lady who is intelligent, good looking and self-assured. She must be Jewish and a Spanish speaker. He can travel anywhere in the world to meet his Mrs. Wonderful. He prefers not to share his picture but is very attractive, slim, 5'8" and has real style and an understated flair!"
Additional Fields
- My Industry
Current and past fields that have shaped you professionally.
- My Type of Work
Your daily tasks and responsibilities.
- Lifestyle
Active, Social, Quiet, Adventurous, etc.
- Interests & Hobbies
Add individual items. These help find common ground with potential matches.
10. Match Preferences
What you're looking for in a partner
Preference Fields
- Looking For (Gender)
Select one or more: Male, Female, Non-Binary, Other.
- Age Range
Minimum and maximum age you'd consider.
- Location Preference
Where your ideal partner should be based.
- Height Range
Preferred height range in centimeters.
- Relocation Willingness
Are you willing to move cities, states, or countries?
- Education, Religion, Income Preferences
Select multiple acceptable options for each.
- Partner Description
A free-text description of your ideal partner's qualities.
Flexibility Helps
While having preferences is important, being overly restrictive can limit your options. Consider which preferences are truly important versus those where you could be flexible. Sometimes the best matches come from unexpected places.
11. Photos
Presenting yourself visually
Photo Upload & Guidelines
In Phase 1 of your application, you will find a dedicated photo upload section. You can drag and drop files or click to browse. Accepted formats include JPEG, PNG, WebP, and HEIC. Each file can be up to 10 MB.
- Upload up to 10 photos
- Include at least one clear headshot (face clearly visible)
- Include at least one full-body photo
- Photos should be recent (within the last 2 years)
- Show photos of you doing activities you enjoy
Photo Privacy
Your photos are for matchmaker identity verification only. They are never displayed to other members, potential matches, or anyone outside your matchmaking team. Photos are stored securely in encrypted cloud storage and accessible only to authorized Flagship staff.
✓ Do
- • Smile naturally
- • Use good lighting
- • Show genuine moments
- • Include variety (casual, dressed up, activities)
- • Choose photos that represent current you
✗ Avoid
- • Heavy filters or editing
- • Group photos where you're unclear
- • Photos with exes or other dates
- • Sunglasses in every photo
- • Outdated photos (5+ years old)
Auto-Save & Draft Protection
Your work is always protected
Your application form includes built-in draft protection. As you fill in fields, your answers are automatically saved to your browser's local storage every few seconds. This means:
- If your session expires or you accidentally close the tab, your unsaved work is preserved and will be restored when you return.
- When you click Save Progress, the draft is cleared and your data is saved permanently to the server.
- You can safely work on your application across multiple sessions. Simply log back in and your most recent draft will be loaded.
What Happens After Verification?
Once you verify your email and your application is confirmed, several tools activate automatically. A personalized YOU+ Growth Map is generated using your personality profile and relationship goals, providing a curated curriculum of books, exercises, and weekly development tasks. Your matchmaker may also generate a Mirror-Image Archetype Report and a Cosmic Compass analysis from your assessment data. These resources are designed to support your personal growth while your matchmaker conducts the active search.
12. Terms & Agreement
Finalizing your application
Digital Signature
Type your full legal name to acknowledge that you've read and agree to our terms of service. This confirms:
- • All information provided is truthful and accurate
- • You consent to our matching process and communications
- • You understand our privacy practices and confidentiality commitments
- • You agree to participate in good faith
Ready to Begin?
Now that you understand what's involved, you're ready to complete your application. Remember: honesty and thoughtfulness lead to better matches.